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Mr. Thomas O'Connor
  • In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Tom's name to the following.
  • ALS Association (DC/MD/VA Chapter)
    30 West Guide Drive Suite #150
    Rockville, MD 20850

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“It is so hard to grasp that Tom's dynamic presence is no longer physically with us. What gives us comfort is his rich legacy as a devoted family man...Read More »
1 of 10 | Posted by: Arlene Weissman - PA - Friend

Our first trip to South Korea
2 of 10 | Posted by: Nancy O'Connor - West Chester, PA

“He was always smiling. Rest In Peace. ”
3 of 10 | Posted by: Maggie Murphy - Port Washington

“A friend sent me this poem and it truly captures feelings when you lose a loved one. ”
4 of 10 | Posted by: Helene McDevitt - Philadelphia, PA

View of Florence from Hotel Rooftop “Knowing Tom since I was 14 years old leaves a lifetime of memories. As stated, he loved to travel and I was fortunate enough to travel with Tom and...Read More »
5 of 10 | Posted by: Helene McDevitt - Philadelphia, PA

“I was saddened by the news of Tom's passing. It is rare to find an individual of his stature and with so much passion for the world of architecture....Read More »
6 of 10 | Posted by: Jeff Wynkoop AIA Macau, SAR China

“My condolences to you all. Tom was spark of brilliance and always a delight to work with. I have missed his AC / PA presence since his leaving, but...Read More »
7 of 10 | Posted by: Karen Babb - Seabrook Island, SC

“I worked at SOSH in the early days.OC was a cool guy to work with.I would always tell him. "I still don't know what you do here". ”
8 of 10 | Posted by: Harry Sroka - NJ - Coworker

9 of 10 | Posted by: Tom Falvey - Ardmore - Friend

“I had the honor of working with Tom on several projects and I always enjoyed his skill and wit. He took his profession very seriously but was always...Read More »
10 of 10 | Posted by: Keith Irtenkauf - MI - Coworker

Thomas Joseph O'Connor of West Chester, Pa. and La Quinta, Ca., passed away peacefully on March 25, 2019 at his residence in La Quinta, Ca. He was born on June 21, 1950 to Thomas J. O'Connor and Kathryn T. (Lynch), in Philadelphia. He graduated summa cum laude from the University of Notre Dame and proudly wore his class ring his entire life. He spent a year abroad studying art and architecture in Rome, Italy, a city he fell in love with and visited numerous times. Tom was a retired partner in the architecture firm SOSH Architects based in Atlantic City and New York City. After retirement he traveled extensively and managed to visit five of the seven continents. He is survived by his beloved wife, Nancy (McLaughlin), and loving children, Dylan O'Connor and Caitlin O'Connor. He is a much loved brother of Kate DiLullo (Bob),and Michael O'Connor (Eileen). Tom is also survived by his nieces, nephews and many friends who will greatly miss him. Tom had a keen wit. Undecided as to what his epitaph should read, he narrowed it down to, "Not quite what I was planning." or, "I don't have time for this." A celebration of Tom's life is planned for this summer, date and time to be announced.